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The element of fire contains the
potential of great power. Dynamic by nature, the wild
energy of fire must be harnessed and handled according
to the circumstances and depending on the goal. Used
incorrectly, fire is ineffective or even dangerous.
Babies experience a host of new
and fluctuating desires, needs, and emotions. In leading
the parent to respond to needs and demands, it is important
that energy is not scattered whichever way the wind
blows. A samurai baby learns to control and direct needs
and intentions as a candle lights a room or a hearth
warms a home. The right approach is fit to the situation
with proper timing. Understanding and employing the
principles of growth, the samurai baby can not only
rage for attention, but also project warmth, brighten
moods, signal needs, spread feelings, flicker anxiety,
and more.
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The
following is a strategy from Way of the Baby:
"The
nature of spreading fires involves making the parent
lose concentration. The parent is accustomed to situations
proceeding according to a certain flow or logic. It
is easy to contain a single large fire in a hearth,
but when fires are scattered about and spreading in
different directions, efforts to control or put out
even small fires often become frantic and unfocused.
If you are being blocked from a particular goal, change
your tactics and spread your energy in different directions.
By switching back and forth between activities or points
of interest, with little rhyme or reason to the order
of selection and time spent with each, you can confuse
the parent. One way is to grab anything and everything
you can get your hands on. Pull things out of boxes
and off of shelves and spread them around on the ground,
put them in your mouth, or send them flying through
the air. When the parent moves to engage you, merely
head off for a new target, leaving a trail of clutter
in your wake and the parent to juggle the options of
stopping your next move, cleaning up after you, or finding
some way to appease you. When the mind of the parent
is spinning in this way, you can easily win and achieve
your original goal."
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